As a psychologist I become aware of the marked influence feelings of insecurity play in molding human behavior. This was certainly the case in my life which began with an uncommonly touching childhood. Eventually I was comforted by the realization that my feelings were not unique - that we all to varying degrees are influenced by such emotions.

Our formative years set the stage for future development. Consequently my story begins with the historical past. As I proceed from childhood through my teens, adulthood, various careers and retirement, times when I felt inadequate are described. Factors that contributed to such feelings are recalled. Contrariwise, offsetting positive experiences that balanced the scales are related allowing me to cope, progress and achieve contentment. The story concludes with what I have learned from my travels through life.

Dr. Paul Otke is a lighthearted psychologist mellowed by experience as a military officer, academic administrator, businessman, husband and father. In this autobiographical account, he openly describes personal feelings and insights relating to struggles with feelings of inadequacy from early childhood to retirement. Troubling experiences are moderated by humorous insightful anecdotes which make for easy reading.

In his many careers, Dr. Otke has enriched the lives of thousands of people and his triumph over feelings of inadequacy will touch your soul.